Transformation through Relationships

Channeler: 

Selacia

Council of 12: Transformation through Relationships -
How to Find Love in 2011
A Council of 12 Message through Selacia
Copyright 2010-2011
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Note from Selacia: "This New Year message from The Council of 12 provides a guide to relationships in 2011. In their message, The Council speaks about the unique energies of these times, and the impact on relationships. They provide a checklist you can work with now and regularly throughout the year to track your progress with relationships. The Council's message addresses many reader concerns and questions about the often confusing dance of relationships. We welcome your input over the coming weeks. Wishing you a New Year that sparkles with love and joy! I look forward to connecting with you again soon, either privately or in a public format. Our next group meditation channeling event is on March 19 at the equinox. Please share these messages with your friends." - Selacia 12/27/10
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The year is about to end, and a brand new one is beginning. Consider what kind of year you want to have. Since relationships are a vital component of life, focus on the sort of relationships you would like to create or sustain.
Invite your inner wisdom to speak to you as you contemplate these questions:
· Do you want new people in your life?
· What would your ideal relationships look like?
· Are your current relationships fulfilling?
· If not, why?
· If your relationships are fulfilling, why?
· What relationships cause you distress?
· Why do you feel troubled?
· What relationships catalyze uplifting feelings?
· If you could stand in the shoes of your best friend and view yourself, how would you describe your good qualities?
· Imagine standing in the shoes of a person who frequently causes you to doubt yourself. If you were this person, interacting with you, what would you criticize?
Your answers to these questions will give you insights into yourself and how you relate to others. Your relationships are your biggest transformational catalyst. Think of each as a gift.
Consider returning to this list monthly over the coming year, noticing how your responses have changed or stayed the same. Pay attention to when you continue to have troubles with the same people, and when you have the same types of difficulties with different people. Observing this will help you to spot repeating patterns, and to obtain a big-picture perspective of your relationship skills.
Do Not Relegate Love to the Back Burner
Your relationships are the key to how you will experience transformation in these unprecedented times. If you have relegated love to the back burner, thinking that you are too busy, think again. Love is pivotal to the success of all types of relationships -including romantic partners, family members, friends, coworkers, customer service representatives, and strangers.
Your ability to love, under all kinds of conditions, will determine how well you will cope with the coming chaotic changes.
Why? You live during the greatest reconfiguration of society ever known, and it's global. Wide-reaching changes are under way, impacting every element of how life is lived. How you relate to other people, things, and circumstances will determine your personal experience of the changes.
People relate to others in two basic ways -through love or fear. The second method is the one humanity has learned over thousands of years. It is ingrained in you. You inherited fear-based patterns in your DNA.
The love-sourced way of relating is the one that you were born to remember and master in this life. Love is as natural to you as breathing, for it is a part of your divine essence. Your conditioning, however, left you with amnesia about how to fully express love.
The Crossroads of 2011
The year 2011 will be a crossroads for you and everyone that you meet. It will be another year of reconfiguration, with people on every continent addressing broken systems. There is a big gap between your ideal world and the one that you live in now.
Your task is to join with others in finding ways to close the gap between the existing dysfunctional societal structures and those based on more enlightened ideals. Old-paradigm approaches being updated in this reconfiguration include those involving family life, courtship, friendship, and social networking.
Love is the glue that will anchor the new, light-filled structures in place.
If you are skilled in relating to others in a loving way, and you apply those skills regularly, you will glide over the bumps in your path. This will be crucial in 2011, when the already bumpy ride becomes bumpier as the pace of life quickens.
Discover how to be more loving, and the road ahead will become easier to travel. The need to become more loving is universal. You may be single or married - it makes no difference. Even a single person without family, working alone in a home-based business, will need to develop loving responses to others if he or she wants to find balance in the coming times.
Checklist for Finding Love in 2011
· Are you searching for a new romantic partner? Before looking for this person, first become comfortable with you. Learn to enjoy your own company. Discover how to accept yourself - the good, the bad, and the ugly. Clear up the residue from past hurts by healing unresolved issues with previous partners. Find out how to look deeply within, developing a strong connection with your inner knowing. In that process, you develop more self-trust while learning to get your own answers to life's questions. By doing these things, you can develop the level of self-love needed to bring a new partner into your life.
· Know that finding and creating a new love partnership in today's uncertain times will be a unique experience. Why? Humanity's awakening is accelerating, and as that happens, the approach to relationships is shifting. The entire landscape of relationships is changing - impacting what a relationship looks like, how it starts, and what is acceptable. Examples include how people meet and how transparent they are in the early stages of relationships. Three topics that until recently were relatively taboo during courtship - money, sex, and time - today are coming into conversations in meaningful ways. Couples are talking openly about their values much earlier. There are frank discussions about financial views, for example, that many couples in the previous generation did not have, even after marriage. In recent decades, studies of discordant relationships showed that partners argue most over issues of money, sex, and time. It is a sign of these more transparent times that couples are addressing potentially thorny issues, even during the courtship stage.
· A new love partner could be right around the corner, or even already a part of your life. Do not underestimate the hidden factors involved in manifesting your partner. Remember that there is divine timing to everything. You may feel ready right now to meet your soul mate. You may even feel a sense of urgency to do so, in tandem with having other intense feelings about being alive now. The best way to find your life partner is to live a life that supports your awakening. This involves learning how to share, how to care, how to be intimate, how to let go, and how to simply be.
· Are you happily single? There is nothing wrong with being single during these pivotal moments of time. You do not need to have a partner to become enlightened. You do not need a partner to keep you sane during the great shift in consciousness. You do not need a partner to be happy. If ideas like these come into your head, question them. Investigate the source of your thoughts and feelings. Chances are, ideas like this about being single are not coming from your heart. Your heart knows better. It speaks truth. If you could hear your heart right now, it would remind you of these things. It would tell you that you are alive now to help create new approaches to relationships. Being single is one viable option.
· Are you already in a love relationship? Consider that there is always room to create more love, right where you are. Start with you. Each day you have a choice of how to be with yourself and others. You can choose to love unconditionally, like a mother would do with her son or daughter. The love you generate will radiate out into the world, including the part that you share with your partner. There is no guarantee, of course, that your partner will be more loving simply because you are. Your experience of the relationship will be seen through the eyes of love, though, and this changes everything.
As you continue the journey of discovering your divine nature, we surround you with our love and blessings.
We are The Council of 12
Wishing you love in all of your relationships this next year! --Selacia
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Planetary Ascension

• 21 August 2001

by archangel Michael

Greetings, my dear friends on earth! I have come to you on this day to bring you a message which concerns you all here on this planet. While you are incarnated, while you are inside a physical form, you cannot easily see what is happening on an energy level around you and even less so what is happening globally, although some of the effects can be seen, and are even noticed by many. I am referring to climate changes, to increased volcanic and tectonic activity, to changes in wildlife and other changes that are obvious enough that I do not need to go into detail about these. However, dear friends, these changes are, as your saying goes, “just the tip of the iceberg”, they merely reflect mildly what is happening with mother earth, as she progresses with her transition, her awakening and, in a way, creation on a higher level – on a level only very few humans are yet capable of seeing. As earth’s main vibrational level shifts, a three dimensional earth will remain, but the further these changes progress, the more noticeable these changes will be for anyone remaining on the three dimensional level – but these changes are more than likely not exactly what one would expect, as it is not what we refer to when we talk about the new earth, but I do not wish to contemplate about the remainder of the three dimensional earth, let me just indicate that one day the three dimensional aspects will look a lot like the planet Mars and eventually like planet Mercury. Let me assure you, these planets are not as vacant as they appear – they may not bear any three dimensional life, but Mars indeed has life on a higher dimension, but this life and this planet is proceeding as well and shifting to a yet higher level of vibration, indeed this process is almost complete, as it is for many planets in this galaxy. Yes, my dear friends, the ascension process is not just limited to your planet, it is happening all over the galaxy, in every galaxy, but each galaxy has its own cycle, and this cycle is the reason for the current transition on this planet – indeed, mankind has taken longer than most other species, which is why it is time now, and when some say there has been an extension or that mankind should get one, dear friends, the flow of the universe cannot provide that much more than what it already has, as there is a frameset for all that is happening. Indeed, as things develop, it may seem like there has been an extension – but this is merely the result of your actions, as more and more humans become aware and begin to help earth and mankind through lightwork, prayer and faith, thus the events took a different turn than some had predicted, a simple result of the law of cause and effect. What still needs to be pointed out in this subject is that what you perceive and see of the earth changes also are a reflection of your own changes, and now is the time to begin to shape your life and realize what you can do to contribute to a smooth transition, and to your own ascension into the next higher level. Follow the Path Of Light and you shall be able to receive the blessings from your spirit friends, teachers and helpers. Greetings to you, Amen, Amen, Amen.

Understanding the tripple Light protection

19/2/99

by archangel Zadkiel

Greetings to you all, my dear friends on the earth plane! I have come to you on this day to explain to you why it is so important to complete the triple light protection as described by Emmanuel (Path Of Light, Chapter 4.1) as it appears to me that the function and purpose of that exercise is not fully understood.
First of all, you live in a spirit world, you are connected with the astral world, and when you open yourself up – purposely or negligently – you also open yourself up to influences from lower astral planes. On those lower planes are beings that I do not wish to describe any further, as that may cause fear, but they pose a very challenging influence, that can be at times through temptation and false promises of power, or at other times through threat and fear, while there are also beings that simply have fun scaring others. This influence can be not only real, but it can be very, very strong, but at times so subtle that it is hard to detect and realize, especially since there are some that will try to fake being a higher being. The only true way to limit and prevent such influence is not by building up walls, but by reducing the chance that they can have any influence – only when you are filled with love and light energies, these forces cannot affect you. Archangel Michael spoke to you about “where there is light, there cannot be darkness” in a recent address. This is why the triple light protection is so important – when you are filled with the white light, dark forces cannot enter, nor influence you. They may try at first, but regular use of the triple light protections in a way sends out a message to all lower astral planes, saying “you can come and try, but all you will get is love and light” – which is something those beings like to avoid for it would raise their energies, cause changes in their state of being, and, essentially, cause them to be no longer evil. This they will try to avoid, and therefore the triple light protection avoids that such beings get near you, unless they are ready to change and then you have nothing to fear, for you will be assisted by angels to help such souls into the light.
To explain the functions in little more detail – the radiation of white light from the heart focuses your heart energy and helps it expand, so that you are radiating more and more light the more often you use this exercise. Little at a time, your spark of light expands and become a bigger and bigger flame which stays bigger even after the exercise is over, as long as you refresh it every so often – which is why regular use of this exercise is essential. Eventually, you may be able to have a flame as big as your aura, at which point there would be a very good chance that this alone may cause you to ascend – however, this requires regular use (at least twice daily) over a longer period of time.
The light from the central sun of the galaxy is divine light which comes from the strongest God energy center anywhere around. The central sun could be described as one of the main “chakras” of God, as it is a major energy concentration and energy distribution center. Due to the nature of this energy, it is not visible to the human eye, as it would blind you instantly because of its strength. The quality and effect of this light is of such a nature, that it assists in cleansing your bodies, the entire aura, replenishing lost energies, and releasing trapped alien energies (energies that you picked up somewhere else, e.g. someone else’s anger).
Requesting the assistance of your spirit guide and your guardian angel as part of a daily routine exercise is very important in building up your relationship with these important helpers on your side. Also, unless these helpers know what you request, they may at times not be able to assist due to their code. This does not mean they will do what you ask, because there may be other factors, like the wishes of your higher self, promises, or karma, involved.
I hope I have explained more to you today why we keep recommending this particular exercise. Feel free to choose to use this exercise, or pass it by. But you need to know the facts before you can make a more or less objective decision, which is why I have given you some more information about this exercise here.
Greetings to you, my dearest friends! Peace and Love to you! Amen. Amen. Amen.